Before I go any further, I really need to confess that the blatant disregard of that comma in the title upsets me. This irritation has not lessened over time, and if I had not finished this book and this post sooner, I really cannot say what might have happened.
I have read very few memoirs. In fact, I'm not entirely sure what a memoir is. The only one I know I've read for sure is the wonderful The Glass Castle because it told me it was "a memoir" right on the cover. Having never read a comedian's memoir before, I did not really know what to expect. It was a collection of the experiences that have led her to this moment, the moment where she is famous enough and old enough to write an entire book about her journey and have people actually interested in reading it. A criticism I had while nearing the end was the question of audience. Who exactly was supposed to be reading this? It seemed like a very long letter to Poehler's closest friends, which provided a nice intimate tone but felt slightly exclusionary. Then after reading this great review, I agreed with this blogger that Amy Poehler was writing for herself.
Yes Please reads almost more like an advice book than a memoir, and there were several quotes or mottoes that resonated with me. A favorite about knowing her own tricks: "I am really onto myself. I've got Amy Poehler's number." Another, in regards to choices women have to make as parents and career people: "Good for you. Not for me."
This book was quick, mostly light, and funny with a lot of charming photos. If you like Poehler, you should read it and become your friend circle's Amy Poehler expert. And if you've never checked out her "Smart Girls at the Party" video clips on her website, go! Do it! Here are some good ones: